Ask for what you want

So many of us restrict themselves in asking for what they actually want. There are a few reasons. One is that they are so overwhelmed and pressured out they cannot tune into what it actually even is. This is why I usually begin a teaching relationship with casting off energy drains and focusing on self-care. Another is because they are concurrently concerning about "how" it is going to take place and end themselves in their tracks. The how is not our enterprise and the universe has a much better design than we ever might have dreamt up for ourselves. It's quite marvelous really. The third is many of us do not feel worthy enough of greatness (or do not be aware of they can even ask), and do not bother trying. Watch the film or read the book for a remarkable intro.

Believe you will have it

This hands down is the place most people quit themselves. You can say you need something, however deep down if your beliefs are not aligned with it you might not get it. This is why most of us intellectually know these principles, however if they're life is not reflecting it it is due to the fact they are not feeling it deep down. Most of the beliefs that are running the show are unconscious. Beliefs dictate how we perceive ourselves and the world, and consequently the selections and actions we take or do not take. For example, if you determined you weren't smart enough when your trainer embarrassed you in class growing-up, you will continue to create experiences in your life that inform you that you are not smart enough. Like a not so extraordinary job or lack of business results. You will do the things that make it so. Crazy I know, however so freeing at the same time to know you have control over this. Affirm the empowered trust you need over and over, and begin making choice from this place. I love A Course in Miracles for this, due to the fact it teaches us that we ALL supposed to create pleasure regardless of age, sex, religion, schooling, etc. We share more in this in our contemporary podcast episode.

Receive it

This is another area where people get stuck. The "way" constantly indicates up by way of an idea or opportunity. Most people have a difficult time receiving the goodness ready for them due to the fact they do not sense good enough (back to beliefs). So, the next step will actually be right there, however they do not even see it because their energy (worthiness is love and their dreams are love), does not align with what they're wanting. This is why I'm such a huge supporter of self-care. Because when you take the time to do the things you love, what you are actually saying is that you are worthwhile of what brings you pleasure in your life, like your dreams. Practice receiving. Often. Saying yes to what indicates up even if it is a little frightening is vital to receiving. You must be inclined to take that next step when you do turn out to be aware of it. This is called inspired action. If you say things like I cannot manage to pay for it or I do not have the time, the chance will pass you proper on by. The trust you are working from is not enough, and you want to go back to beliefs.

Author Name: Chris Atley